To Those Seeking Training

If you're viewing this page, it means you've found at least some appeal in the world of dominance and submission I've presented.
I'm very honored if that's the case.

Actually, I receive messages saying "Please train me" quite frequently through X DMs or this site's form.
While I'm very grateful for this, the reality is that I decline most of these requests.
The reason is that there's a mismatch between what those seeking training desire and my worldview of D/s and SM.

So on this page, I'll outline what I seek in a masochist I own.
It's a long read, but if you're hoping for training, please read it through to the end.

Real-life Training

The most common "Please train me" messages come from those seeking online/DM/email training.
I regret to say that I don't conduct individual training exclusively online.

Of course, I always welcome reports on the public training tasks I've posted, so please feel free to try any task you like and send in your report.
However, I don't create tasks or give instructions aimed at specific individuals online beyond replying to reports.

Therefore, the following text is directed at those seeking real-life training.

Qualities

I believe the partner I'm looking for is a special type of person, perhaps one in 100,000.

Masochistic or submissive tendencies themselves aren't special qualities.
Rather, I think 99% of people regardless of gender (including myself) have some masochistic or submissive tendencies.
However, the degree varies greatly from person to person.

Also, even when we talk about masochistic or submissive tendencies, these actually point and extend in various directions.

The quality that only one in 100,000 people possesses is having these masochistic or submissive tendencies extremely skewed in a specific direction.
The term that succinctly expresses this direction and intensity is "absolute obedience."

Absolute Obedience

When I use the term "absolute obedience," I'm sometimes asked, "How absolute is absolute obedience?"
Would I have to quit my job if ordered to?
Would I have to cut ties with family and friends if ordered to?
Would I have to die if ordered to?

The answer to all is "yes." In other words, "absolute obedience to any extent."
That's the definition of the term "absolute obedience," isn't it?
What I want is a person who finds pleasure in this state of "absolute obedience" and truly desires it from the heart.

(For whether you really have to die if ordered to die, please read The Origin of Absolute Obedience)

Resolve

The standard for measuring the resolve to accept "absolute obedience" is providing information that could end one's life.
Specifically, this means blackmail-worthy images as mentioned in Training Record of R, and personal information at a level several degrees more severe than you might imagine.

I possess masturbation videos showing the faces of all the masochists I own, and I hold fatal personal information ranging from their best friends' contact details to their credit card security codes.
Moreover, I have them submit these before we've even met face-to-face. Normally, this would be terrifying and impossible to hand over, wouldn't it?

Being able to take such risks based solely on the texts I've written demonstrates your trust in me and proves that you truly desire "absolute obedience."
This is the kind of resolved partner I want.

Pleasure

Everyone acts in pursuit of pleasure.
Even submitting to someone by immersing yourself in the world of D/s and SM is, ultimately, an action seeking pleasure.

However, I want to inform you in advance that my D/s and SM don't directly provide you with pleasure.
I don't engage in the kind of "play" that everyone imagines when they hear SM, such as blindfolding, restraining, and pleasurably teasing you.
I don't give you pleasure, pain, or humiliation as an end goal.
This is because the dominance and submission I offer isn't a relationship centered on you.

You are the one who offers, who is taken from, who is exploited, and what you get are only the secondary emotions that accompany exploitation.
The satisfaction of prostrating yourself and having your head stepped on, the pain of being used with barely any foreplay, the humiliation of performing tricks loudly when forced—all these are merely byproducts of activities meant to satisfy me.

However, for certain types of people, masochists who crave "absolute obedience," being placed in a position of exploitation itself brings immense pleasure.
It's something many times stronger and happier than direct SM stimulation.
If the pleasure you seek is the joy brought by the state of submission rather than directly given stimulation, you might be the person I'm looking for.

External Relationships

As you've probably noticed while reading the site, I'm what's called a multi-keeper, someone who simultaneously maintains multiple D/s and SM partners.
I cannot tolerate any interference from you regarding my relationships with other masochists.
While it's understandable to feel a certain jealousy, please refrain from seeking a relationship if you think you might express this in your attitude toward me or let it influence your actions.

I don't particularly mind if you have sexual partners other than me.
Basically, I won't force you to break up with other partners, nor will I forbid sexual intercourse.
However, from the perspective of controlling STD risks, I'd like you to consult with me before entering into a relationship with a new partner.
Even if it happens spontaneously, please at least report it afterward without fail.

Also, I cannot enter into a relationship if you have someone who needs your protection (typically a child you're raising).

Frequency and Location

I can secure a place and time to properly use you at most about twice a month.
The location is central Tokyo. Even if you live far away, training is possible if you can come to Tokyo about once every 2 months.

Separate from real-life training, I impose daily management routines on the masochists I keep, including greetings, meals, excretion, masturbation, etc.
You will send reports regularly via email or X.
Web responses are at most once or twice a day.

If you think the frequency of communication is too low and you'd be crushed by loneliness, please refrain from applying.

Requirements

Adding conditions such as gender and age, the requirements I seek in a partner are as follows:

• Desires a relationship of "absolute obedience"
• Seeks real-life training
• Is female
• Is between 18 and 33 years old
• Is physically and mentally healthy
• Can submit information to demonstrate resolve
• Can accept multi-keeping
• Can come to Tokyo at least once every 2 months
• Is satisfied with a training frequency of at most twice a month
• Does not have someone who needs protection

Please refrain if you deviate from even one of these requirements.
I also cannot answer questions or negotiations about requirements that can be clearly interpreted.
"I'm male but," "I'm 17 but," "I can only go to Tokyo once every 3 months but"—all these clearly deviate from the requirements, so I cannot even respond.

Contact Method

After reading the above, if you meet the requirements and wish to be trained, please contact me.
You can use either the form at the bottom of this page or X DMs.

Please include the following items:

• A detailed self-introduction
• The reason you want to apply
• Your resolve to accept "absolute obedience"

You will probably read this page multiple times, read the entire site multiple times, and repeatedly type and delete your application text.
But if you are the kind of masochist I'm seeking, you will eventually be unable to resist contacting me.
I look forward to that moment.